Some time ago I read, "God gives us memories so we may have roses in December." -- James M. Barrie.
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Friday, September 9, 2022
My Cousin Jerry
Some time ago I read, "God gives us memories so we may have roses in December." -- James M. Barrie.
Wednesday, August 3, 2022
Rockaway Beach 1954
Thursday, December 31, 2020
2020 – My Take
The year ends tonight. Such an adventure. Stalked by Covid-19. A trip to NYC in March when ignorance, or denial, were bliss. Reliance on Zoom meetings recovery, medical care and family get-togethers. A cancelled, (postponed),family reunion. The births of new family members. The awareness (existence) of family members we were unaware of until now—and them us. The deaths of those we loved. Graduations in virtual ceremonies. Living alone or in groups more hours and days than before—loneliness and altered boundaries. Work from home. Retirements. Lost jobs. Learning new ways to be, to do, and to let go. More prayer than before for some. More stress for just about all of us. Vacations with care, or stay at home holidays. Writing, reading, quilting, walking, running, bicycling, sleeping, learning, and sharing. Telling stories old and new and thanking God more than ever, or not. Giving more of ourselves. Accepting more help than we believed we could tolerate, or need. Changing minds around our certainties. Gaining and losing weight. Drinking more, or less alcohol. Social Media – OMG! Purchasing, selling, and building homes. Painting rooms. Fixing stairwells and this or that. Quarantining. Missing people and hugs with aching sorrow. Commemorating and burying our dead – Grief. Home schooling. Cursing politicians. Losing ourselves in streaming television series. Searching for ‘safe’ outdoor activities endlessly. Postponing and forgetting haircuts altogether. Ordering groceries for delivery from super markets and observing directional arrows in aisles (or not) when brave enough to food shop. Dying for specific dishes from favorite restaurants that we feared may prove light years away forever. Believing for moments, or days, that we were alone and discovering that we had legions of company. Trying to recall what life was really like before pandemic. Worrying what it would be after. Trusting more, or less. Making new friends continents away. Loving our little ones with special focus. Affirming love. Chasing the positive. Deepening intimacies. Pelotons, treadmills, Nordic Tracks, and myriad exercisers. Couches and comfy chairs we overused. Feeling overwhelmed by our differences and overjoyed at marvelous acts of loving kindness and generosity. Holding fast to friendships that we feared would fray. Letting others go. Seeing, and not. Believing, and not. Experiencing more days of standing at the precipice—some definition of abyss--than we ever thought possible.
And still we are here.
Please feel free to take a shot at your experiences of 2020. And I ask, no fighting.
You are love and you are loved.
Thank you.
Saturday, June 15, 2019
Saturday, July 28, 2018
Comforting Friends - From July, 2018 Issue The Scarlet Leaf Review
July 28, 2018
Pleased to announce that a short story of mine -- Comforting
If you choose to give it a look I will be pleased.
Check out other authors and fine poetry/fiction in the issue -
The Scarlet Leaf Review contains excellent work.
Thank you in advance for reading and feel free to comment.
Robert E. Donohue
Blueberries (not Gooseberries)
Preparing breakfast yesterday morning I filled my arms with various jars, large containers or left-overs, and an immense section of watermelon from the refrigerator so that I could get at the yogurt lodged in the way back of the top shelf. In the process I toppled a box of blueberries onto the kitchen floor.
Ever do that?
The fruit package top popped and berries went everywhere. Newly ripe blueberries (especially cold ones) have a plump roundness - almost circular, ball-like, and possess a surprrising ability to get everywhere on an open kitchen floor surface kept clean of clutter and dust as the care-takers in our home insist be the case with ours.
Sweeping up hundreds of the berries introduced me to places I never knew existed in our kitchen.
I began sweeping, feeling like the effort was a boring chore and completed the work choosing to believe I was a Sweep Detective. Yup - Sweep Detective Bob. I investigated the whole of the kitchen - beneath appliances, in corners never seen - around baseboards that took on a curve and sweep that were nothing but artistic in their smart design and construction - and closets and doors built too far from the ground to block the round little lovelies I'd let loose.
The experience reminded me of early swimming lessons (getting thrown into the water -- Now Swim!), or better, early trash removal and disposal chores when I was a kid, which included cleaning the cat's litter pan in the days before commercial litter existed, dusting hard to reach furniture surfaces --- I was told then to "just get it done!" Fortunately, my partner was instructed in such cases to "Make a game of it," and she passed this on to me. I made a game of it.
Oh, instruction to refrigerator manufacturers of the 21st century: consider providing flexible guards along the base of your product that repel - with a slight flipping action - tiny objects that look to lodge themselves in the darkness at the base of your products.
Still, love blueberries.
Friday, June 1, 2018
Sunday, September 18, 2016
My Cousin In Autumn
This morning I read, "God gives us memories so we may have roses in December." -- James M. Barrie.
We would have forced a get-together somehow. A football game usually, or dinner at your place -- something. Telephone calls weren't great. What went on between us wasn't built on words. It was time together.
Fall brings us back.
It's like you're waiting outside and I'm in the house, assuring my wife that we're going to be fine at the game as she looks on skeptically. We sometimes weren't, but you know that.
I took my assigned job making sub sandwiches seriously, and you never failed to compliment. The long rides in the car added rich presence that I did not grasp, but knew mattered. I know now how much. We sat in silence or talked family and politics. Self-assured, we discussed behaviors we hadn't a clue about.
Our seats were usually in the nose-bleeds in the September sun. In Ocotber and November we basked in the gorgeous weather, or huddled in the wind, or soaked in the rain. The December cold left us chattering and loud with complaint.
You'd elbow me when your guys scored, or mutter, "Heh, heh, heh," when my man dropped a pass. I pretended to ignore you as I roiled. On the long walks from the stadium to the car when my guys lost (often) you never needled me. You knew I loathed trash talk. When your guys lost (rarely) I smiled and you reminded me not to get my hopes up: "You're going nowhere this year. They'll break your heart!"
One year I could barely walk, but we went. Another time you rested too often so you might catch your breath and I worried. Still we went and didn't speak of impediments.
What I took from you over time was brotherly love, and more; we were boyhood chums. I knew it was your gift to me, as it was mine to you. We didn't talk about that either.
I'm convinced that you return each fall to remind me. But these days I can't touch the sensory experiences with you gone--the aromas, tastes, sights, presence -- like roses without scent. Love's still there. But memory enables enough remembrance as you continue to own me in autumn.
Friday, March 21, 2014
La Villa Pelizari
Saturday, November 16, 2013
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